Good relationship, especially marriage, is based on respect, love and trust between both the spouse,
But in today’s Indian culture wife going to the court for small issue crossing their limits and well well …. marriage life is in trouble …!
- Wife threatens to file the DV, 498a, maintenance but not sure, when and where?
- Your marriage is rocking, and don’t know what to do?
- What are these issues? , What your wife will get out of this?
No one knows the Answer..! You can only pray to God, Your wife should understand the answer early phase of dispute..!
Now a biggest tragedy, A Law and order exist for the purpose of establishing justice and when they fail in this purpose they become the dangerously structured dams that block the flow of social progress. This is same think happening in today’s Indian society with Gender Biased Law, Inactive Law System, and Corruption all the places, Indian men not moving anywhere, and you can see the huge number of Divorce, Domestic violence, 498a and maintenance case in India, and husband paying money to lawyer /system just like ATM machine. This will create huge pressure and lot of stress to Husband.
For all the above matter to whom should we blame?
- Gender Biased Law In India –> Government ?
- In proper selection of partner–> Parents ?
- Inactive Law System –> Judiciary ?
- Corruption in System –> Society ?
- Busy Schedules –> Your Boss ?
- Ego clash –> Women Empowerment?
- Lust / Extra matrimonial affair –> Media, Western culture ?
No one is responsible, only you are responsible for your self, and your Stress.
Stress is nowadays a part of every married person and quite a common thing for people who are a part of the Marriage dispute. This silent killer, if not controlled at proper time, can lead to depression, work-life balance issue and other physical ailments like acidity, diabetes, hypertension, heart and skin diseases and etc. The more we try to avoid the factors, the more frustrated we become and hence, increase our stress level further.
The way out is however much simpler than the definition of stress itself – Sahaja Yoga Meditation!
Sahaja Yoga a highly developed and unique system of meditation that enables the person to reach onto a level of complete self-awareness. Sahaja Yoga is a method of meditation whereby by getting into meditation for just 20 minute every day, people are transforming their life within short span of time and understanding the value of peace, love, compassion and being collective in life.
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Well said! Indian society is going through a silent breakdown. A man faces severe harassment in India, thanks to our wonderful gender biased laws… This is going to take time to change..awareness..awakening is happening…SP has raised a voice today against misuse of rape law.. And see how everyone is branding SP as woman hating party….
So while men need to fight this unequal battle, it is of utmost importance to remain stress free,cool & balanced… make the society awake & aware ..
Kudos for awakening men suffering silently !!!
You people created a site and showing that man are the true victim behind the marriage failure. Always blames the laws meant for women. Since decades women were being harassed, taunted for small issues at home, indirect and direct of dowry, that your family has not given this and that. Among all of that the siblings, sister in law or brother in laws (whether married or unmarried) are continuously interfering into newly wed couples for the small issues. Lots of manipulation game been done by mother to his son against his wife, which is strong reason behind not developing any understanding, trust and love between the couple. Because a son blindly believes and reacts what his parents an siblings says about her wife.
A wife does not come with the pre planned mind to divide and rule over the family and get separated. It is the people behind the family who makes her married life hell mentally.
At-least man should be capable of keep balance between his parents , siblings and his wife. Its good either not to react against wife on every single issues been pampered by his mom n sister. Or if person is reacting , then should be impartial for both. If anybody is wrong whether his mom, sis, or wife. Or its a best way to get deaf , dumb, blind for all equally, not to react , that could be a wise decision.
Wife also gets married to that person ( whether love marriage or Arrange) living her family , friends, job, herself just only for her husband. She also requires only her support , care and love and encouragement to get adjusted at new home with new parents and siblings. It is only husband who can help her out from all this after marriage things happens with her. He must take stand for her in any way whether good or bad, if she is wrong some where should not scold her infront of his parents and siblings. Should make stream line for his siblings , “that how to behave with with their Bhabhi”, with limitations on words and language.
This is only a wife wants from her husband.
I can’t say if there are some women misusing laws, but not every women do this. There are many women facing the same issues, which increasing the amount of disputes, misunderstandings, separation, divorce between newly wed couples, if they have baby or not.