Precautionary step to handle the False DV case threat from Wife and In-laws
- Wife threaten for false case of DV act and maintenance case against myself and my parents what to do ?
- Wife demands huge money for settlement,
- Wife left the home and do not allowed the access to children what to do ?
- Precautionary step to handle the False DV case threat from Wife and In-laws
Precaution is better than cure
10 Step Formula to handle the false DV threat from Wife and in-Laws
1. PRE-SSC : ( Prepared, Record Evidence by Secrets, Secure and Confidential way ): If your wife or In-Law given the threat of 498a or DV then quickly start the collecting and recording the all possible facts, Precaution should taken that this recording should be Secret, Secure and confidential.
i. Install the CCTV in home
ii. Record the heated conversation on Phone ( Audio / Video )
iii.Collection of Evidence related to her Adultery
iv. Keeping watch of SMS and collecting Itemized bills of his mobile
v. Keep watch on her email and outdoor activity, etc
vi. Start recording (Video/Audio) all her threats and Blackmailing
2. Smart- NCC: ( Smart Way of Filing the Non Cognizable Complaint ) Register the Non Cognizable Complaint at your local Police station as early as possible . This NC against your wife and In-Laws, But very smart way and tricky way to get the advantage
Advantage: It will help you in future for Bail, Evidence and Divorcee stages in your case and weak the opposite party evidence
Disadvantage: it will back fire on you if you did not filed the NC with Smart Way , for example if you have filed NC and your wife did not file any case till now there are possibilities that she may go and filed the 498a or DV against you.
3. F-Safety: ( Family Safety and Residence Safety) : Weak point of husband is his old father, mother and family, to provide the safe guard to all the future cases, you need to take the following steps
i.Stop staying with your parents, do not shared the common house with your parents,
ii.Let you and your wife start staying on rented home
iii.Slowly stop all kind of your wife communication with your Parents
iv. Slowly stop sharing all the information about your family and other member with your wife
4. P-Safety: ( Property Safety) : Wife can take full control and custody of your home and your bank account as per DV act
i. Do not Open any joint account with Wife, if any close as early as possible
ii. Do not take any property on joint name, if you have taken, dispose the same
iii. Do not involved your wife in any of the financial communication
iv. If you have any home, i.e. your wife Matrimonial home then sell or dispose the same quickly
v. Do not have any kind of nomination name of your wife in your Bank account or other place
vi. Do not disclose any financial investment to your wife like ( Mutual fund, and other source of income )
5. C-Safety: ( Child Safety) : Today all the child law are in favour of women so don’t know when and what time you don’t have access to your child, so be ready for worst
i. Spend the good amount of time with your children
ii. Open one bank account on your children name and deposit some money every month
iii. Or do some investment on your children name
iv. Take lot of photo and video with your children
6. Law-Expert: Start understanding the Family and dowry law in India
i. Purchase the LAW book , 1. PWDVA act 2005 / 2. Hindu Marriage Act / 3. Indian Evidence Act
4. Civil Procedure Code (CPC) – Indian laws Bare Acts /5. Code of Criminal Procedure (CRPC) – Bare Acts
6. Indian Dowry Prohibition Act
ii. Joined the Men’s Right Group like MRA, Save India Family and many more
iii. Joined the different communication on Facebook, mailing group and WhasAPP group
iv. Read the different Judgement s on Maintenance, Dowry and Domestic violence law
v. Keep in contact with different lawyer in City in case of emergency
7. Ready for Fight: Family dispute is very emotional and long fight, to win this fight you need to prepared yourself strongly
i. Do not blame or shout to any of your family member for your dispute with your Wife
ii. Do not blame Indian system or Police , court or any other institute
iii. Keep cool your head all the time and make yourself emotionally strong
iv. Keep the faith on you and keep the lot of patience, do not worries
v. Always be happy, Marriage or Wife is not only path of joy in life
vi. Start one good meditation technique, I find the Sahaja Yoga is one of the Best and Most effective
8. E-Collection: ( Evidence Collection ) Collect all the evidence for example
i. All the marriage bills and payment receipt
ii. Make all the payment using your debit card or credit card
iii. Pay and collect all the mobile bills , electricity bill, gas bill, do the payment using online banking or debit card
iv. Collect all the evidence of your wife education, PF, Income tax return, job details and all investment details
9. C-Channel : ( Communication Channel) Please make sure
i. Do not stop communication with your wife,
ii. Do not use any abuse word against your wife and in-Laws
iii.Do not stop the reconciliation or mediation process at any time
iv. Keep relatives / neighbour informed
10. I-Note : ( Important Notes) This is important to take care
i. Do not afraid from Jail ever great person went in Jail
ii. Show the wife that you are happy without her, no issue at all
iii. Ask for Justice never ask for Divorce, Divorce you will get as by-product
iv. Do not comprise till you prove that your are innocent
v. Do not run away from Court notice or Police call, face it and handle it
vi. Follow the process, follow the law attained the court and other process if required
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